Sometimes, being in a relationship may not be easy. It is easier judging from the outside than judging from the inside. That is why sometimes you may see some relationships that look so great from afar, the guy is proclaiming the love he has for her on social media all year long and you are thinking of how perfect they look together. Meanwhile on the inside behind closed doors, he uses her as a punching bag. Sincerely there is no written rule to how to make your relationship work but there are a few things you can look out for when your relationship is on the rocks.
1. Don’t broadcast your relationship on social media.
This is so common among youngsters. In this case, you are showing the whole world what you are about. When we are in love, we want everyone to know it. There is nothing wrong with that because the true feeling of love is indescribable. But at the same time, not everyone is happy to hear your success or what he bought for you. Some people smile at you on the outside and don’t really care about you deep inside them. The truth is, when this happens, your life becomes their entertainment.
2. Do not listen to gossip.
This is mostly for those who have popular boyfriends. You are on your own and someone calls you and says; “Hey Cindy, I saw your boyfriend with one girl I heard this, I heard that etc.” I am not insinuating you play deaf to everything you hear because you might just be the one to be laughed at, at the end of the day. But do not listen to everything you hear. Close your ears to false rumors. This leads me to the next point.
3. Trust your partner.
True love is based on trust. When you trust your partner, you and your partner can go a long way. This can save your relationship from turning sour. When you trust your partner, you can tell the difference between a false advice and a good one. Trust goes a long way.
4. Do not go to bed upset with each other.
When you have an argument with your partner, try to make peace before bedtime.